Wednesday, January 20, 2016

A Letter to Bethlehem, A Shining Star

Pastor's Annual Report of 2015
6For it is the God who said, "Let light shine out of darkness," who has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. - 2 Corinthians 4:6

Dear Beloved Bethlehem,
Two things.  The first is: you are amazing.  And I love you.  I have been honored to rejoice with you this year as this congregation grows by leaps and bounds.  We grow with love for one another, especially in our prayer requests.  We grow in our understanding of scripture and our faith, especially in our adult study groups.  We grow in evangelism as we baptized one adult in 2015, and two more in Jan 2016.  We grow in community as we learn and celebrate our 30 years of history.  We grow in our outreach to young families who just keep showing up!  I experience a tiny glimpse of God’s delight over you, and I am overwhelmed. 
Next, I want to acknowledge that I am riding a very thin line in the rest of this conversation.  Let me be clear: I do not want to sway the vote for either budget in any way.  This vote is not about me, it is about Bethlehem’s future.  Therefore, I have written the rest of this report to “you” as a congregation, with me in the most neutral place possible.  Hopefully it is clear that as your pastor, I am doing my best to guide you spiritually at this difficult time, but not on the specifics of your financial decisions. 
The second thing is: I have a tough question for you to consider.  Whether you have a half-time pastor or a full time pastor matters, of course.  But this question matters more.  Do you, as a congregation, have as your top goal being a stable congregation?  Or rather, is your top goal being a congregation that exists to do God’s work in this world?  Yes, this matters.  It matters a lot.  Because no matter what the outcome of this meeting (part-time pastor or full-time pastor), if it is simply a better strategy for stability, then we are setting ourselves up to fail.  Let me be clear, seeking stability alone, is not trusting God.  It is pretending that we can control the long-term future of this place, and is dangerous to our spiritual health if we do so only to serve our own needs.  Rather, we live faithful to God’s will and live out that will as Christ’s body.  Seeking stability must be only for the purpose of stewarding well God’s gifts to us so that we can live in faith, giving ourselves away. 
We have talked a lot for the last few years about what God’s purpose is for our existence, and I am sorry to say that “stability,” in itself, is not God’s purpose for us.  We have done our best to name what we do understand about God’s purpose is for us in the Vision, Mission and Values of this congregation:
Vision:
To shine the light of Christ so brightly that everyone is
drawn in to God’s love through this community.
Mission:
Welcoming all through the light of Christ by
feeding the hungry, clothing the naked and being a place of shelter.
(Inspired by the Holy Spirit through Matthew 25:35-36)
Values:
The Illuminating Word of God
Seeing all People and Perspectives
Serving our Communities with Delight
Opening the Eyes of Faith at Every Age
Now it is time that I, as your shepherd, ask this tough question, once again: Why does Bethlehem Lutheran Church – Sturbridge exist? 
Let me give you examples. These are answers that I have heard from you over the past three years.  One good reason to exist is to be a place of shelter and solace for those who need it.  This reason is reflected in the tail end of the Mission Statement as well as the first value, the illuminating Word of God.  Because it is God alone, and God’s Word for us that supplies the only real solace we have in this sin-bound life.  God’s Word shines a light on us and through us to the world to say: “You. Are. Loved.  By a God who created the whole world.  You matter that much.  Every broken thing about you, that you have done or has been done to you, every broken thing, is made whole in Jesus Christ.”  Is this why you exist Bethlehem?  Is this work the work that lights you up inside? And if so, how do you throw your whole selves into the ministry of this place?  Do you offer more healing services?  Do you create a care team that brings this Word to the members and friends among us who do not hear it in worship, through cards or phone calls? 
Another good reason to exist is to be a community.  An honest, authentic, community that trusts God and one another.  How will you build community for each other?  One on one conversations?  Monthly Dinner Clubs?  Do you build the kind of trust that can hold difficult conversations about the issues that impact people’s lives in our congregation: racism, caring for aging parents, caring for the foster children in our state or caring for immigrants?  Will you build a community that can respect each other even when we completely disagree (because we will, the CAT taught us that, and that’s ok!) and be open and loving about it?  Is this a purpose for which it is worth existing – a kingdom of God purpose?
When we ask why do we exist, we ask: What lights you up inside?  Many people in this congregation have named and claimed the mission to feed, clothe and shelter from Matthew 25.   And there is no question that you are doing this in a major way at Bethlehem’s Closet.  And this ministry is beautiful.  Absolutely beautiful.  This ministry is a way for us to provide clothing with compassion and dignity to those who are struggling to make ends meet.  But again, is this why you exist, Bethlehem?  And if so, what are you doing as a member of this congregation to make this mission happen?  Are you lit up about it to the point that you will support it with your time, talent and treasure? You may want to ask the same questions about the new garden.  What lights you up with God’s joy and love?
You see, Bethlehem, I am a very poor reflection of our God’s love for you, and I love you a lot.  And it pains me to see that your future is uncertain right now.  And the certainty of that future is not about which budget you pass.  The only certainty we have, as individuals and as a community, is simply our certainty in God’s love for us.  If you want this congregation to survive, to be stable, and that is all you are hoping for, you hope for far, far too little.  God wants more for his church.  God wants Christ’s body in the world to thrive, to be healthy, alive and kicking!  God is seen through you!  Christ’s body in the world!  And God is showing up here, every week, to nourish this little piece of the body with generous, abundant bread and wine and Word.  Trust it.  Fall into that underserved grace.  Grip tightly to the Promise.  You are God’s children, and God has a future for you.
God holds a future where we show this darkened world what a community looks like when we live together and love each other, even when we have incredibly different ideas about society and faith – to live as Christ’s community inside and outside this building. God holds a future where our light shines so brightly that everyone in our community is drawn in to God.  Drawn to God by the Bethlehem star that shines beyond and through everything that might get in the way.  We are the shining light of Christ… because only in God is our future, our existence, our very life.  – Modified from the Vision, Mission, Values presentation.
In Christ’s Light,
Pastor Kirsten
The Rev. Kirsten Nelson Roenfeldt
774.318.9306 (mobile)


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